Ready, and go.
OKAY, SO. I’ve been neglecting the blog for a few weeks since I started dating new guy. I finally found a nickname for him on Tumblr, and it is Monkey. Yes, Monkey. Because that is perhaps one of the most commonly used words by him. Don’t ask.
Anyway, we met Hongdae at a bar. Kissed and were drunk. We ended up getting in contact with each other the following week and met the next weekend for dinner and drinks. That is where he met a bunch of the Tumblr ladies. He enjoyed the company of all of them, especially Kitty Kitty Korea. For the record, she is just as outrageous and entertaining in person as she is in her blog. I think she might have scared him because when he and I drank a few days later he said he would be “very fucking scared” if I said just her and I were going out to club together. HAHA. Love it and I love her, along with the other ladies we had the chance to party with.
So, this whole non-relationship relationship is something I have never done before. I guess I’ve been dating Korean guys for too long because at the beginning I was uneasy about us not discussing the boundaries of what was going on between us. It has only been a few weeks since we started dating, and yet we hang out quite a bit. I have spent more time with him than I did with glasses over a few month period. We get along really well and our personalities click perfectly. But, he isn’t my boyfriend. Now, I brought up the topic a few days ago because the guy I had the one night stand with awhile asked me to hang out again, and I didn’t want to get myself caught up in a sticky situation. I asked him if we were seeing other people, and he said that he didn’t want to and I agreed that I didn’t want to either.
So we are dating exclusively, yet he is not my boyfriend. Are you following? This feels weird to me. I don’t know. “The guy I’m seeing” is not what I want to introduce someone as. I am not pushing anything on him or myself, because I don’t want things to blow up. But, I will say that it’s been a very long time since I have been able to be around someone I was dating and not have to worry about what I say, how many cigarettes I smoke, or if they are going to take something I say the wrong way. It feels nice.
Will add more juicy details later when I have time. I just want to say this for now though: WHY HAVE I BEEN DEFENDING KOREAN MEN WHEN IT HAS COME TO SEX.
O
.
M
.
G.
